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How Better Hearing Improves Romance

Hear With All Your Heart

“My Darling Gave Me Hearing Aids for Valentine’s Day” will never climb the Billboard charts. It’s not even a real song. But the sentiment is spot on.

Hearing aids don’t suggest romance. The proven link between better hearing and better relationships does, though. And “relationships” means everyone, from the cashier at the store to coworkers to, yes, even your most significant, intimate ones.

You can enjoy deep, emotional connections if you have untreated hearing loss. It means being more intentional and making adjustments. However, hearing loss sneaks up on you. Many don’t even realize they have it.

But treating your hearing loss can easily improve this most important of relationships and keep that connection strong.

 

Better Hearing, Less Miscommunication

Stakes are high in romantic relationships. Strong communication keeps both parties feeling seen, appreciated, and valued. Treating hearing loss is a small price to pay for dramatically lowering the chance of miscommunication.

To highlight just a couple of important benefits:

  • No more whispering sweet nothings to your partner, only to get the response, “What!?”
  • Banter will be energizing again — listening with a hearing loss takes more energy.

Hearing your best means a more harmonious relationship, less confusion about plans, and more time for each other.

 

Better Hearing, Less Frustration

When you have hearing loss, responsibilities shift. They have to answer the doorbell, call to schedule appointments, or even respond for you in social situations if you miss a question. No matter how understanding your partner is, frustration can settle in.

Hearing your best shifts things. You can hear the timer go off and tend to the turkey. You can hear, acknowledge, and respond to a shift in your partner’s tone of voice. You can recount a funny story you heard over coffee with a friend.

It might not seem like much, but it’s these little gestures that show you’re an attentive and committed partner.

 

Better Hearing, Less Distance

You might not even notice it, but when conversations start to become difficult or even embarrassing because of your hearing loss, you withdraw a bit. You might even avoid interacting with your partner.

But better hearing means more confidence in conversations, making you both more proactive about engaging each other.

 

Better Hearing, More Affection

Intimacy and affection are built over time from small, shared experiences such as inside jokes, enjoying movies or music together, and vacation mishaps.

Hearing better means once again enjoying those beloved subtleties in your partner’s voice, the nuances of the first song you danced to, and the humor in that oft-quote movie dialogue they love so much.

 

Tips for Date Night

If you’ve just started your better-hearing journey, here are some strategies to ensure your first date as a hearing aid wearer goes great.

 

Be Practical About the Location

Don’t set yourself up for failure. If you’re still learning how your hearing devices perform in different environments, choose somewhere quiet. Head to the park for a picnic, stay in and cook dinner together, or choose a quiet restaurant. If you’re past the adjustment phase, consider your limitations when choosing the venue.

 

Be Early

Restaurants are more crowded the later you arrive — go early and beat the crowds. You get a quieter atmosphere and excellent happy-hour prices. You’ll also have a better chance at being seated away from kitchen and loudspeaker noise.

 

Be Prepared

Put fresh batteries in your devices or, if you have rechargeable devices, ensure they have enough charge to last you through the evening. Give your devices a maintenance once-over as well, to clear them of earwax and debris.

 

Be Your Own Advocate

Let your partner know the best ways to communicate with you. If they need to switch seats or talk slower, tell them. They’ll be grateful for the feedback. They want your time together to be special, too. And don’t be shy with the staff — let them know what your needs are, such as a table away from excessive noise.

 

Consider an Upgrade

What If you already have hearing aids?

Your hearing changes over time because of age, loud sounds, and general health issues. If it’s changed enough, it can be much like if you have an untreated hearing loss — and the issues that come with it.

We can adjust your programming to meet your needs, but if your hearing has changed too much, you might need a different level of technology. Here are some other things that might affect whether your technology still meets your needs.

 

Malfunctioning Devices

What if you do regular DIY maintenance and get your devices cleaned and checked regularly, but things still aren’t right? Occasional repair is one thing, but if your devices regularly malfunction, it’s time to replace them.

 

Costly Repairs

Older devices get discontinued. Parts for older devices become scarce. Eventually, repairing your devices costs so much that it makes more sense to simply replace them.

 

Evolving Technology

Devices have advanced significantly. Filtering of background noise gets better and better, rechargeability is now commonplace (no fiddling with tiny batteries!), tinnitus management is a standard feature, and so is direct wireless streaming from smartphones and other audio sources.

 

New Interests or Environments

With lifestyle changes often come different tech needs. Took up a sport? You might need moisture resistance. Switched from an office to a job outdoors? You’ll likely experience a different noise level now.

Are you wondering how your hearing is doing? Contact us today to schedule an appointment!

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Who Invented Sign Language?

From Its Origins to American Sign Language and Beyond

Humans have used hand gestures since the stars exploded and we began to exist, so the exact origins of sign language are unclear. However, the progression from early signing leading to American Sign Language (ASL) — and other sign languages used worldwide — has some definitive moments and identifiable responsible parties.

 

What Is ASL?

ASL has existed in the U.S. and parts of Canada for more than 200 years. It’s considered a formal language and, as with any language, it has many variations and dialects all over.

Just as when you travel from English-speaking city to English-speaking city, inflections change, and locals tend to use different words and phrases more regularly than in other parts of the same country.

It’s the same with sign language. On ASL’s ever-evolving nature, the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association reports that, “ASL linguistics has evolved as a specific research discipline that is the object of systematic study in graduate courses and doctoral programs in universities throughout the United States and Canada.”

 

The Origins of Sign Language

The history of sign language dates back centuries, with evidence of various forms of sign communication found in ancient civilizations. Hard-of-hearing and deaf individuals have always had a need to communicate. Necessity — the reputed mother of invention — led to the development of early sign languages.

Would it surprise you to know that the majority of documented origins of ASL are French? While American Sign Language is only traced back to the early 1800s, French Sign Language (LSF) has been documented 100 years prior to that, and other forms are less formally documented even earlier!

 

Contributions of Early Educators

In the 1500s, Spanish Benedictine monk Pedro Ponce de Leon used signs to help educate Spanish students who could not hear. He is believed to have been the first person to develop a method for teaching hard-of-hearing and deaf individuals. Sadly, his methods — whether never recorded or lost — have disappeared to the tides of history. However, in the 1700s, the first formal sign language was developed in France.

One prominent figure in this field was Abbé Charles-Michel de L’Epée, a French Catholic priest turned educator who developed a sign system called Old French Sign Language (VLSF — vielles langue des signes française) to communicate with his deaf students.

ASL historian William Stokoe documented that, in 1780, L’Epée taught two sisters who couldn’t speak or hear. He couldn’t teach them religion if they couldn’t understand him, so he then dedicated his life to teaching deaf children in France and opened a school.

Stokoe went on to sing L’Epée’s praises, saying that others, “… had paraded their successes while making a mystery of their methods, L’Epée gave his life, his considerable private fortune, and his genius to a school which, in theory at least, was open to every child born deaf in France, or in all of Europe.”

Author and ASL educator, Michelle Jay, says of L’Epée’s school for the deaf, “Deaf children came from all across France to attend the school. The deaf children had signed at home then brought these signs with them to the school.” L’Epée was a collector and organizer of these home-grown signs and attempted to homogenize them.

A report from Vassar College explains, “L’Epée then set out to do what no one else had — learn from deaf people so that he could teach them.”

Ultimately, L’Epée’s studying and recording efforts of their personal sign systems — and the fruit of the collaboration with the deaf children of France at that time — laid the foundation for future sign languages.

 

How did sign language come to America?

Esteemed ASL historian James Woodward said that most educators claim ASL was born when “T.H. Gallaudet and L. Clerc brought French Sign Language to the United States.” He questions that theory by adding, “This seems a very unsatisfactory explanation.” Although all agree ASL is definitely French in origin, Woodward hints that solely crediting Gallaudet and Clerc may not be sufficient.

You may recognize the name “Gallaudet” from the famous university in Washington D.C. It’s the only university in the U.S. dedicated to the education of the Deaf. It was founded in 1864 and is still educating students to this day.

Gallaudet University claims, “Our story began in 1816 when Laurent Clerc and Thomas Hopkins Gallaudet crossed the Atlantic from Paris, France, to the United States with a dream to open the country’s first school for deaf education. Then, in 1864, with the support of Congress and President Abraham Lincoln, they extended their vision by founding Gallaudet University.”

A romantic story, but is it the full explanation? Should Clerc and Gallaudet receive all of the credit? Who were their teachers?

 

Putting the Pieces Together

Connecting the dots is how we connect the origin story with the modern tale — Deaf studies expert Michelle Jay helps us out here. “Abbe Sicard was Abbe de L’Epée’s successor,” Jay says. “Laurent Clerc and Jean Massieu were once Sicard’s students and became accomplished deaf educators. Gallaudet studied the teaching methods of these instructors and even took private lessons with Clerc, who was one of the best teachers at the institute.”

Thomas Hopkins Gallaudet was an American looking for a way to help his hard-of-hearing and deaf neighbors communicate. He traveled to investigate a school for the Deaf in England, where he met Abbe Sicard, visiting from Paris. Through Sicard, Gallaudet met Laurent Clerc. When Gallaudet was getting ready to travel back to America, he asked Clerc to accompany him.

According to Gallaudet University, “On the way back, Clerc taught Thomas Sign language and Thomas taught Clerc English, and together they established the American School for the Deaf in 1817. Laurent Clerc became the first deaf teacher of deaf students in the United States.”

Hartford, Connecticut, was the site of this huge leap forward for ASL. When this first permanent school for the Deaf was established, ASL emerged as a distinct sign language. It combined elements of LSF, Indigenous sign languages, and the diverse linguistic backgrounds of its users. ASL quickly spread across the U.S. and became a vital part of American, and eventually Canadian, culture.

 

Other Sign Languages:

  • Quebec Sign Language (LSQ: Langue des Signes Quebecoise): LSQ is the predominant sign language of Deaf communities used in Francophone Canada, primarily in Quebec.
  • French Sign Language (LSF: Langue des Signes Française): With over 100,000 users worldwide, LSF is used predominantly in France and Switzerland.
  • British Sign Language (BSL): BSL is used by the Deaf community in the United Kingdom and is recognized as an official language. It was developed independently from ASL and has its own grammatical structure and vocabulary.
  • Australian Sign Language (Auslan): Used in Australia, Auslan has its roots in BSL but has developed into a unique language over time. In fact, it is a language unique to Australia. Auslan has its own grammar and vocabulary and does not follow English sentence structure. Much of Auslan often does not have direct English equivalents and vice versa. It has undergone some standardization and is used in education, the media, and everyday communication.
  • Japanese Sign Language (JSL: 日本手話): JSL is the primary sign language used in Japan. It has influenced other sign languages in East Asia and has its own grammatical structure and vocabulary. Just as Japanese is completely different from English, JSL is completely different from ASL. While ASL uses some mouth movements, JSL uses mouthing extensively to distinguish between various signs.
  • Chinese Sign Language (CSL): China has several regional sign languages, collectively referred to as CSL. Differing significantly, these sign languages are not mutually understood.
  • Mexican Sign Language (LSM): LSM is the sign language used in Mexico and is derived from ASL. However, it has evolved independently and developed distinct features unique to Mexican Deaf culture.
  • International Sign Language (ISL): ISL is a system designed for international communication among deaf individuals. ISL is a combination of signs from different sign languages and is not a complete language. It allows individuals from various places in the world to communicate effectively.

The diversity of sign languages around the globe is really something to celebrate!

Sign language has a fascinating history, and the efforts of pioneering educators for the formation of ASL, and other sign languages, clearly have had an enormously lasting impact on the world. When the playing field is leveled, and everyone can communicate, we humans have a better chance of understanding one another in every way.

Sources:

American Speech-Language-Hearing Association – Ad Hoc Committee to Establish a Position on American Sign Language (ASL) https://www.asha.org/policy/ps2019-00354/ Accessed 8/1/23.

https://www.britannica.com/biography/Pedro-Ponce-de-Leon Accessed 8/1/23.

Stokoe, W. Journal of Deaf Studies and Deaf Education vol.10 no. 1. Oxford University Press 2005. https://academic.oup.com/jdsde/article/10/1/3/361306 Accessed 8/1/23.

Jay, M. Don’t Just Sign, Communicate! A Student’s Guide to ASL and the Deaf Community. Los Angeles, CA, Judea Media, 2011. “Start ASL” https://www.startasl.com/abbe-de-lepee/ Accessed 8/1/23.

Historical bases of Sign Language: 1978 James Woodward, Gallaudet College

http://www.cslds.org/v4/resources/InternalAdmin/publicationB/16/_Woodward_1978_HistoricalBasesOfASL_.pdf Accessed 8/1/23.

Gallaudet University https://gallaudet.edu/about/ Accessed 8/1/23.

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8 Back-to-School Communication Tips

8 Back-to-School Communication Tips

Make Hitting the Books Even Easier with These Helpful Tricks

It’s practically back-to-school time! Whether the students in your life are returning to class in person or online, keep these helpful tips in mind.

  1. Maximize lipreading. Hearing and lipreading work together to enhance communication, making clear sight lines between instructor and student all the more crucial. During virtual lessons, it’s important for the speaker to appear on camera so participants can see their lips.
  2. Curb background noise. Distracting sounds can make learning difficult. Noise-filtering hearing aids; windows and doors closed off to outside noise; and classrooms with carpet, sound-proofing wall panels, and other elements designed to optimize acoustics can be a big help.
  3. Activate captions, which can take a load off when viewing videos, watching online webinars, or otherwise following speech. Free phone-based apps — for example, technology company Google’s Live Transcribe — and web-based services are also available for real-time transcribing of speech.
  4. Lean into assistive listening devices. Those with hearing aids or cochlear implants may be able to wirelessly connect to options such as FM systems to send audio directly to their ears. Some venues even have audio looping systems that connect with T-coil settings on compatible hearing aids.
  5. Pair a compatible wireless microphone with the student’s hearing aid to enhance listening in one-on-one and group environments. The discreet, portable mic is easily moved from one flat surface to another and, depending on the model, could even be clipped onto clothing for convenience.
  6. Use the chat function — if available when using an online virtual platform — to help clarify any missed points or to ask a follow-up question. Some sessions might also be recorded for helpful playback later, so be sure to ask the instructor, who may need to initiate the recording option.
  7. Stream audio right to the hearing technology. Bluetooth hearing aids can receive audio directly from sources such as smartphones, computers, stereos, and more — depending on compatibility — and make it easy to personalize sound for specific listening and learning needs.
  8. Book a hearing checkup, because regular evaluations with our licensed hearing care professionals can catch potential problems early and help you and those you care about kick off back-to-school season with your best foot forward.

 

How’s Their Hearing?

Book regular hearing checkups for the students in your household — just as you would for their eyes and teeth — and recognize some of the signs of potential hearing loss:

  • Trouble following lessons or instructions from teachers
  • Ringing, buzzing, or other perceived noise (tinnitus) in the head or ears
  • Struggling to understand people speaking through masks
  • Frequent responses of “Huh?” or “What?”
  • Complaints of earaches
  • Turning up the television volume
  • Failing grades or reports that your child doesn’t respond in class
  • A gut feeling that something’s off with your loved one’s hearing

Improved hearing can play a big role in helping students of every age perform their best in class. So don’t wait. Schedule back-to-school hearing evaluations for the whole family today!

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Keeping the Peace: 5 Holiday Communication Tips

Preventing arguments and heated discussions around the dinner table isn’t impossible

Though some of us may not want to admit it, family gatherings during the holidays are sometimes stressful. With people of different ages coming together, generations can collide, leading to communication roadblocks and misunderstandings. Here are five ways to keep things copacetic.

Redirect Problematic Topics

Many families attempt, year after year, to implement a “no politics or religion” rule for holiday conversations, but since these subjects are so personal and integral to our daily lives, that rule is almost always broken. Who can resist talking about beliefs they hold dear? The key to keeping the peace is redirecting the flow of conversation before it engrosses guests. At the first sign of a potentially polarizing topic, gently change the subject. If one guest in particular is a repeat offender, try to involve him or her in a distracting activity. Maybe the kids need help building a gingerbread house or some after-dinner dishes need washing. If all else fails, proposing a fun game like charades or Cranium could do the trick. Who has time to argue about elections when they’re acting out a movie scene?

Maintain a Positive Atmosphere

Nobody’s life is perfect. Even the most upbeat, amiable guest can experience setbacks and emotional upset during the holidays. You can’t foresee problems like delayed flights, sick children, marital tensions, or accidents, but you can ensure that the general vibe of your get-together is welcoming and inclusive. Offering sincere regard and gratitude for each guest goes a long way toward making everyone feel comfortable.

Reignite Happy Memories and Create New Ones

Celebrating the holidays with family means you likely have a long history with most of the people present. A great way to boost everyone’s mood is to reminisce about the good times you’ve shared and avoid revisiting old hurts like childhood rivalries or traumatic events. Ask relatives to retell beloved jokes and anecdotes, congratulate them on recent achievements, and try to make this occasion one that will be remembered fondly.

Keep an Eye on the Kids

If there are children at your gathering, the potential for a ruckus is high. Depending on their ages, it may be necessary to keep a close eye on them to ensure no one is being bullied or excluded from playtime. Not only will this make them happier and reduce disruptions like tantrums and crying, but it also mitigates the animosity parents might feel for one another when their children aren’t getting along.

Be Mindful of Hearing Difficulties

With hearing loss affecting 1.5 billion people globally, there’s a good chance that at least one of your guests lives with the condition. Whether they wear hearing aids or not, there are steps you can take to ensure they’re included in conversation and feel heard and understood:

  • Make sure you have the person’s attention before speaking
  • Use facial expressions and gestures to accentuate your message
  • Raise your voice slightly
  • Use short, simple sentences
  • Rephrase your words if the person is having a hard time understanding you

Let us help make this year the most peaceful one yet! Contact us today for a complimentary hearing consultation.